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Bereavement

SpamWyzer

(385 posts)

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Reply to irisblue (Original post)

Wed Oct 18, 2023, 10:18 AM

Oct 2023

after my wife died that family become strange through the grieving and loss they each experience. RB is not any different in that way. Try to forgive and move on...if only for your sake. We ALL make mistakes. WE ALL have secret regrets too. Peace.

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There is already drama & angst over clearing out my Moms' apartment [View all] irisblue Oct 2023 OP

So sorry you are going through this leftieNanner Oct 2023 #1

I'm sorry. onecaliberal Oct 2023 #2

In times like this, it brings out the best in people. Deuxcents Oct 2023 #3

Sibling catastrophes are normal at this time. Voltaire2 Oct 2023 #4

Quite true. LastDemocratInSC Oct 2023 #10

Hugs to you Duncanpup Oct 2023 #5

Winding up an estate can bring out some bad behavior in some relatives, heirs, Ocelot II Oct 2023 #6

My heart goes out to you and your family. BoomaofBandM Oct 2023 #7

I read that during the cleaning out process MOMFUDSKI Oct 2023 #8

My sisters Rebl2 Oct 2023 #9

I found SpamWyzer Oct 2023 #11

I've seen it happen in so many families radical noodle Oct 2023 #12

We had a different problem lonely bird Oct 2023 #13

My RB stole over $40K from our mother. OMGWTF Oct 2023 #14

The least favorite child often mucks up the passing Ponietz Oct 2023 #15

From my observation RB was her favorite child from early childhood on irisblue Oct 2023 #17

Some family members act like vultures. It is really sickening. Hugs to you. iluvtennis Oct 2023 #16

I am so sorry that one member of your family is making a very hard necessity even harder. appleannie1 Oct 2023 #18

I am so sorry that one member of your family is making a very hard necessity even harder. appleannie1 Oct 2023 #19

It's sad and painful when family members throw unnecessary difficulties into the mix after a loved Martin68 Oct 2023 #20

I'm so glad I was an only child because deaths seem to bring out the worst in some catbyte Oct 2023 #21