There is already drama & angst over clearing out my Moms' apartment

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18. I am so sorry that one member of your family is making a very hard necessity even harder.

I am the family member that took physical care of my dad, 17 years later my mom and also my husband's father. My family were all grateful and supportive that I was close enough and trained enough to do that. I am also grateful that my husband rearrange our home and made room for hospital beds and equipment to care for all of them. I wish, when my f-i-l had a massive stroke my husband's sister had been the same way. I feel for you and your family as you have to deal with something so emotionally draining. Stay close to your good family members and support each other. And try to remember that addiction is a disease that not only changes people physically but also controls the brain. Hugs.