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Showing Original Post only (View all)Wow....last entry was from 2013?. Or did I read that wrong..... [View all]
My husband died May 4....thats only 3 months ago. And no one has even written to me....no family no friends, no one has even mentioned him. Its only been 3 months. I MISS HIM SO MUCH. I look at his slippers, and cry, I look at all his jackets and cry, I remember what he did to this house Im living in. He built our deck...refinished both bathrooms, bought solar panels for our garage, just did everything. I JUST MISS HIM SO MUCH, and no one has even asked me how im doing.
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I've heard that is pretty common. They forget how much you are still hurting because
GPV
Aug 2024
#19
My heart goes out to you. I hope you can lean on the members here. Do we have a bereavement group?
LauraInLA
Aug 2024
#5
Sorry, everybody, it was brought to my attention that this is already in the bereavement group.
LauraInLA
Aug 2024
#17
It was kinda sudden....he was in a memory care facility because he did try to kill
a kennedy
Aug 2024
#21
Seems like the 3 month mark is often when the grief really kicks in hard.
Attilatheblond
Aug 2024
#43
In a bar.......and we hit it off right away.....but didn't get together again for
a kennedy
Aug 2024
#23
I'm not an expert on anything..this sounds to me like your friends don't talk to you about how you feel
Deuxcents
Aug 2024
#35
I did not know, but am very sorry for your loss. It is horrible to lose a spouse.
PatrickforB
Aug 2024
#42