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LisaM

(28,800 posts)
7. My beef is with cell phone users.
Mon Aug 7, 2023, 06:42 AM
Aug 2023

And it pre-dates smart phones. My first encounter was a young woman who was texting throughout an entire show. She was near me, and the green glow of her phone was distracting. I could barely focus on the show.

Worse, her mother was totally enabling her, asking about the texts. The only sane person in the group was the grandmother, who at least seemed ashamed of the behavior. It was an expensive show, too. I don't pay $100+ for tickets to have to deal with a spoiled brat on her phone. This was a while ago, but I think I mentioned it to them at the intermission or at a break, and she stopped.

Not long after that, I had to deal with a couple filming an entire concert. That show did NOT have an intermission but afterwards I told them they had ruined the entire show for me because it was hard not to watch their video versus the actual show on the stage. They were honestly shocked by my complaint, and wanted to know why I didn't say something sooner (putting me in the wrong, as you can see). But when could I have? I didn't know about their self-entitled bad behavior ahead of time and there wasn't an intermission, so they got away with it.

Just turn your phone off at a movie or show. It's not hard. I do it every time.

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this is the REAL 'entitled' American stopdiggin Aug 2023 #1
"(and, no - it's been around a bit longer than Trump .. )" mahatmakanejeeves Aug 2023 #2
movie theaters, sports events, dining out stopdiggin Aug 2023 #6
My beef is with cell phone users. LisaM Aug 2023 #7
I won't do anything with "fellow Americans" NJCher Aug 2023 #3
I'm so old I can remember back when they had "ushers" FakeNoose Aug 2023 #4
There was a row of young boys in front of me when I saw Barbie. Scrivener7 Aug 2023 #5
Glad I didn't have to deal with that! LisaM Aug 2023 #8
I'm gonna guess it was around 1980. I was in the Millburn (NJ) Theater.Trailers and such were on. 3Hotdogs Aug 2023 #9
stay away from showing of the rocky horror picture show... if there are any left Fullduplexxx Aug 2023 #10
The audience members might throw their walkers at the screen. NT mahatmakanejeeves Aug 2023 #11
Great Scott! Effete Snob Aug 2023 #16
This is so horribly overblown. Jirel Aug 2023 #12
"That assumes that the theater doesn't block cellphone transmission, which an increasing number do." mahatmakanejeeves Aug 2023 #14
Active jamming is different from passive measures Effete Snob Aug 2023 #17
Where did it say you can't get naked? Effete Snob Aug 2023 #13
I mean, you go into a PG-13 movie you're just begging Xavier Breath Aug 2023 #15
it's rare for those type of behaviors to happen in a movie. and see a move during the week, BlueWaveNeverEnd Aug 2023 #18
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