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Elder-caregivers
In reply to the discussion: Fuck me, man! I don't wish this shit on anyone. [View all]FakeNoose
(36,654 posts)21. Here's a suggestion - your area may have an adult daycare center
You could take your mom there each morning and bring her home at night. Some are low-cost or no-cost, others might be a little more expensive. It would be a halfway step till she gets to the point of needing to be in a nursing home full-time.
You'd get a break for a few hours every day, but not lose touch with your mom. Many of us have dealt with the same problem you're going through now. Good luck my friend!
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I feel for you. Mom died 7 years ago but she lived with Alzheimer's for about 15 years before that.
alwaysinasnit
May 2021
#2
Some other folks who have gone through this here are offering excellent advice.
Diamond_Dog
May 2021
#13
Taking care of elder people is never easy and not everyone is suited to do it.
appleannie1
May 2021
#20
Sorry to her that. I had older parents and lost them a long time ago. I have always been jealous
brewens
May 2021
#7
Respect for taking this on. Just know your limits. Be strong. Give Mrs Glam lots of hugs.
BoomaofBandM
May 2021
#11
I can relate to what you are going through, my wife's parents have dementia, 90+ years old
turbinetree
May 2021
#30
My mother didn't have Alzheimer's, but what she had was virtually indistinguishable.
BobTheSubgenius
May 2021
#31
There's lots of help out there. Facilities with Memory Care units can be excellent resources.
littlemissmartypants
May 2021
#39