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littlemissmartypants

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35. Don't give up. Tell her to go ahead. If she doesn't like birthcontrol and wants her
Fri Oct 4, 2024, 11:18 AM
Oct 4

"Man" to control her too. Then maybe she'll think.

Ask her if she's in an abusive relationship and show her this...
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https://www.wingsforjustice.com/domestic-violence-wheel-of-power-and-control/
Young people now have a high number of abusive coercive relationships. Check out the data.

Shun her. Or let her think that you are.

Argument won't convince her. Probably. Incentives maybe if they are contingent and backed by proof. Like seeing her actual ballot.

Check back later and tell us how she's doing then.



Good luck.

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The fact that she got personally involved with a magat in the first place... Think. Again. Oct 4 #1
yeah... LymphocyteLover Oct 4 #20
Ever been to Indiana? Betty Boom Oct 4 #47
Yes, but self-abuse isn't an answer to loneliness. Think. Again. Oct 4 #50
Reminds me I'm of my sister no_hypocrisy Oct 4 #2
Tell her inflation is down ClimateHawk Oct 4 #3
That's the problem. Inflation is down but prices aren't. Self Esteem Oct 4 #31
Republican policies have kept wages low compared to prices. yardwork Oct 4 #39
AND corporate profiteers have kept price-gouging to keep their profits rolling in. Think. Again. Oct 4 #41
I think we're so used to people with inflexible positions that it's surprising when this other form of crazy... RidinWithHarris Oct 4 #4
Some people are easily influenced by friends and partners. ms liberty Oct 4 #5
Lust makes people stupid. Hope she gets over this guy (and doesn't get pregnant!). Timeflyer Oct 4 #6
Being a tRumper is to be in a CULT... ProudMNDemocrat Oct 4 #7
She is voting for mythical Trump Johonny Oct 4 #8
How many "dippy" people even vote? oasis Oct 4 #9
More than we would like to admit. TwilightZone Oct 4 #14
The only votes that really counted with W Farmer-Rick Oct 4 #17
Remember, 50% of voters are below average, by almost any metric. nt eppur_se_muova Oct 4 #52
Trumpnosis Kid Berwyn Oct 4 #10
Interesting... hadn't seen this LymphocyteLover Oct 4 #21
Have you started an OP on this? ❤️ littlemissmartypants Oct 4 #32
I thought I did, but I can't find it... Kid Berwyn Oct 4 #46
Is this it? littlemissmartypants Oct 4 #48
I also found this. But no OP. littlemissmartypants Oct 4 #49
That explains why he does live rallies instead of TV and media... Think. Again. Oct 4 #42
Some women (and some men) have MotownPgh Oct 4 #11
If it makes you feel any better... -misanthroptimist Oct 4 #12
Yeah, I agree. The disturbing thing is just her ignoring the past 9 years of him being awful and even criminal LymphocyteLover Oct 4 #22
She's 21 and wants to impress her boyfriend. Quiet Em Oct 4 #13
I don't really know if she's registered but maybe her boyfriend made her do it. I haven't seen her in a while. LymphocyteLover Oct 4 #23
She must be starved for companionship. The Wizard Oct 4 #15
She is young and I hope her friends continue to work on her. This guy may not last and she will need them. Bev54 Oct 4 #16
I had a friend who was non political newly divorced and looking for a man kimbutgar Oct 4 #18
Sounds like she really didn't Hate Trump Farmer-Rick Oct 4 #19
she will vote. barbtries Oct 4 #25
that is my hope...OTOH there is little chance her vote will make a difference in Indiana LymphocyteLover Oct 4 #26
poor girl barbtries Oct 4 #24
"In matters of great concern, sdfernando Oct 4 #27
Sorry - you are a LOSER if your significant other has a picture of the SlobFather on the bedroom wall. NoMoreRepugs Oct 4 #28
Thinking with the lower brain. With luck this, too will pass Joinfortmill Oct 4 #29
How did anyone find out he had a poster of *rump on his bedroom wall? MorbidButterflyTat Oct 4 #30
the friend told my daughter he had that pic up.... LymphocyteLover Oct 4 #45
Wow. Reading this as an outsider that girl has no core beliefs of her own karynnj Oct 4 #33
That's the problem in a nut shell Tree Lady Oct 4 #36
"She found his arguments on immigration compelling..." William Seger Oct 4 #34
Don't give up. Tell her to go ahead. If she doesn't like birthcontrol and wants her littlemissmartypants Oct 4 #35
LymphocyteLover....... Upthevibe Oct 4 #37
Thanks... it's definitely the boyfriend. She says he treats her well but they haven't been together that long and it's LymphocyteLover Oct 4 #43
Young women being "indoctrinated" for luv....sad PortTack Oct 4 #38
Luv? Sex, food and fun, maybe. Love, I have my doubts. littlemissmartypants Oct 4 #51
She is doing what makes her popular with those around her JI7 Oct 4 #40
probably! Peer pressure! LymphocyteLover Oct 4 #44
My wife had a co-worker like that decades sgo. DFW Oct 4 #53
kind of funny, but sad too LymphocyteLover Oct 5 #54
The more extreme (and easy to disprove) a cult's assertions are, DFW Oct 5 #56
+1. It's like that with many of the cult members here dalton99a Oct 5 #55
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