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In reply to the discussion: Breaking a Child's Will The Evangelical family's twisted obsession with corporal punishment. [View all]Bernardo de La Paz
(51,336 posts)23. "To Train Up a Child"
To Train Up a Child is a 1994 parenting advice book written and self-published by independent Baptists Michael and Debi Pearl, which has generated controversy for encouraging child abuse. The book has been endorsed by the Institute of Basic Life Principles. To Train Up a Child gained notoriety after methods recommended in the book were found to have contributed to several high-profile cases of child death.[3]
Michael Pearl (born 1945)[4] is an American independent Baptist preacher and author. After graduating from Mid-South Bible College, he worked with Union Mission in Memphis for 25 years.[5] His 2006 graphic novel Good and Evil[6] won the Independent Publishers' IPPY Award Bronze Medal in the Graphic Novel/Drama category in 2009[7] and was a 2009 ForeWord Book Award finalist.[8] His other publications include No Greater Joy Magazine,[9] Training Children to be Strong in Spirit,[10] and Created to Be His Help Meet.[11]
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To Train Up a Child has been criticized for advocating child abuse. The book tells parents to use objects like a 0.25 in (6.4 mm) diameter plastic tube to spank, or assault, children and "break their will". It recommends other abusive tactics like withholding food and putting children under a cold garden hose.[4][16] Its teachings are linked to the deaths of Sean Paddock,[17] Lydia Schatz,[18] and Hana Grace-Rose Williams.[19] In all three cases, homeschooling parents acted on the Pearls' teachings.
Michael Pearl (born 1945)[4] is an American independent Baptist preacher and author. After graduating from Mid-South Bible College, he worked with Union Mission in Memphis for 25 years.[5] His 2006 graphic novel Good and Evil[6] won the Independent Publishers' IPPY Award Bronze Medal in the Graphic Novel/Drama category in 2009[7] and was a 2009 ForeWord Book Award finalist.[8] His other publications include No Greater Joy Magazine,[9] Training Children to be Strong in Spirit,[10] and Created to Be His Help Meet.[11]
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To Train Up a Child has been criticized for advocating child abuse. The book tells parents to use objects like a 0.25 in (6.4 mm) diameter plastic tube to spank, or assault, children and "break their will". It recommends other abusive tactics like withholding food and putting children under a cold garden hose.[4][16] Its teachings are linked to the deaths of Sean Paddock,[17] Lydia Schatz,[18] and Hana Grace-Rose Williams.[19] In all three cases, homeschooling parents acted on the Pearls' teachings.
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Breaking a Child's Will The Evangelical family's twisted obsession with corporal punishment. [View all]
demmiblue
Oct 4
OP
I guess I was lucky, my non-believer dad used belts, fists and feet. Child abusers are from all niches in society.
marble falls
Oct 4
#2
Except for the church stuff, we had the same dad. I have no sympathy whatsoever for anyone hurting children ...
marble falls
Oct 4
#7
When I see it going on in public, I do get cold inside and start walking into it. I can't handle hurt children ...
marble falls
Oct 4
#15
A shrink once told me I was feeling sorry for myself and that ended therapy for me with him. I went to another ...
marble falls
Oct 4
#43
Just shocked beyond words. "Preach the Gospel daily. If necessary, use words."
marble falls
Oct 4
#70
It happens in every niche of society. Religion just adds a different twist to it, but it all damnable. My point is ...
marble falls
Oct 4
#68
It is astounding the number of children murdered through physical abuse in cult "Christian" groups.
marble falls
Oct 4
#10
There was a big wooden paddle in the window of the principal's office of the Catholic school I attended in the 1960s.
OMGWTF
Oct 4
#21
you could get it for bad grades, conduct or otherwise, if you were on my middle school football team in the late 70s
prodigitalson
Oct 5
#99
I would hope and wonder if anyone given that book stood up, threw it in the trash and walked away.
chowder66
Oct 4
#57
Please post a detailed explanation of "a gard on". I've not heard of one before. Do you have pictures to help?
Bernardo de La Paz
Oct 4
#30
This small survey does not mean all religious communities. That's an inaccurate extrapolation.
ancianita
Oct 4
#42
Psalms are literally the "songs" OF David, then later, he & his people who broke their covenant with God - NOT of God.
ancianita
Oct 4
#52
Thanks, and I I fully understand that. (Sorry for the delay, it's been a day... )
ancianita
Oct 5
#97
Somewhere down the road many of these parents will find themselves estranged from their adult children.
milestogo
Oct 4
#80
woah... It's terrible that you all experienced physical & emotional punishment; and often left w triggers...
electric_blue68
Oct 6
#106