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56. Just a suggestion, shave off the grey beard, drugstore hair dye is not expensive...

Reply to MLF1981 (Original post)

Sat Oct 19, 2024, 09:07 AM

Oct 19

make it subtle, not to dark. Get the rub-in eye bag reducer that takes a few minutes to work and you'll make a younger appearance. i know, been there, done that. It's important in your first contact with a job possibility before getting an interview even.

Interview attire is also important. Wear whatevr is customary for the field of work you're in. Make sure up-to-date and all that. Jacket, shirt and tie if you think it helps.

Good luck. And interview the interviewer with your own questions. Google good questions to ask during the interview.

Good luck. You'll be more confident with your preparation and it'll show to the hiring managers.

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Damn, finding a new job in middle age is a tough proposition... [View all] MLF1981 Oct 18 OP

Sometimes we need to take steps to reassure marybourg Oct 18 #1

Do you look younger if you shave your grey beard? I'm not usually good at guessing people's age, but grey or ... Jim__ Oct 18 #2

Think about this as a senior. pecosbob Oct 18 #3

That sucks. Happy Hoosier Oct 19 #60

Ageism is real.... I wish you the best of everything in your job search Farmgirl1961 Oct 18 #4

Take a tip from a woman: shave the gray beard off, use some dye on your head hair... Hekate Oct 18 #5

My hair is still coal black... MLF1981 Oct 18 #8

Lucky you with the coal black hair, and I'm sure the beard grooming makes a diff too... Hekate Oct 18 #12

Just remember, you can always grow the hair back after you get the job. Joinfortmill Oct 18 #33

If you go to the day labor again do this: Captain Zero Oct 19 #62

A couple of my kids went through the same thing. Mossfern Oct 18 #6

I used to work for one of the biggest companies in the world. MLF1981 Oct 18 #10

Thank you Mossfern Oct 18 #13

Man oh MAN does this thread touch a nerve with me.... democratsruletheday Oct 18 #37

PhD in a STEM discipline dwayneb Oct 19 #51

I can totally relate. n/t Drum Oct 18 #7

I am sorry for your struggles OC_Lars Oct 18 #9

"I worked part time at a specialty foods market" MLF1981 Oct 18 #11

Very cool OC_Lars Oct 18 #15

I have a friend who makes money working in people's houses...he makes a fortune in Ohio. Demsrule86 Oct 18 #14

Out here in western PA, Deminpenn Oct 18 #16

I'm in Western PA. That doesn't help me. I am not a handyman. I am a teacher with 18 years experience and a PhD AZLD4Candidate Oct 18 #29

I believe there are alternate ways to be certified in PA Deminpenn Oct 19 #45

Thank you. Already tried. DOE said it's up to districts. Districts want already certified AZLD4Candidate Oct 19 #46

Try contacting the school districts Deminpenn Oct 19 #47

I'm in Lawrence County. I have, through phone and email AZLD4Candidate Oct 19 #48

Will ask a few Deminpenn Oct 19 #50

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Same with West Michigan, which reminds me.... democratsruletheday Oct 18 #39

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I'm a long way from Wisconsin... MLF1981 Oct 20 #68

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Much appreciated... MLF1981 Oct 19 #67

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East Tennessee. MLF1981 Oct 19 #65

Long way to California! usonian Oct 19 #66

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I was in the same boat as you about 15 yeas ago. kacekwl Oct 18 #38

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That's what I was thinking too Unwind Your Mind Oct 19 #59

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It is happening to me now. And hard to prove in my field. JanMichael Oct 18 #42

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Just a suggestion, shave off the grey beard, drugstore hair dye is not expensive... brush Oct 19 #56

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