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peggysue2

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140. So sorry to read this

Wed Oct 30, 2024, 09:16 AM

Oct 30

Must have been a terrible shock the way things played out. Strange too, you mentioned the UTI your husband was battling. My sister and my mother-in-law had the same problem as they approached death, recurring UTIs that antibiotic therapy couldn't knock out completely. And the subsequent hallucinations.

This type of loss is always hard, even when you know it's coming. Sending you and your family blessings.

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