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201. I wish I could hug you.

Reply to 1monster (Original post)

Wed Oct 30, 2024, 11:57 AM

Oct 30

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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My husband collapsed and died tonight. [View all] 1monster Oct 30 OP

Deepest condolences BWdem4life Oct 30 #1

With You Roy Rolling Oct 30 #2

My deepest condolences. niyad Oct 30 #3

I am so sorry. TSExile Oct 30 #4

Really feel sad for your loss duncang Oct 30 #5

Wrapping virtual arms around you cilla4progress Oct 30 #6

what a cruel disease Skittles Oct 30 #7

Thak you so much for this. jaxexpat Oct 30 #8

I am so sorry for your loss. Silver Gaia Oct 30 #9

im so sorry BlueWaveNeverEnd Oct 30 #10

Our deepest condolences flying-skeleton Oct 30 #11

Deepest Condolences to you and your family. pazzyanne Oct 30 #12

Nine years ago I went through a much similar night tavernier Oct 30 #13

That is platinum advice right there. All of it. We don't talk about death nearly enough. Maru Kitteh Oct 30 #142

Thanks. My widowed lady pals surrounded me immediately tavernier Oct 30 #161

You don't know how you feel... BigmanPigman Oct 30 #14

Holding you, your son, and your stepson in the light. Earthrise Oct 30 #15

Iam so so sorry for your great loss irisblue Oct 30 #16

My love and thoughts to you. I am so sorry. Doodley Oct 30 #17

Hugs to you mercuryblues Oct 30 #18

I am so sorry. My deepest condolences to you and your family. HeartsCanHope Oct 30 #19

Condolences... MiHale Oct 30 #20

Saddening. B.See Oct 30 #21

My profound sympathies to you and your family. no_hypocrisy Oct 30 #22

I'm so sorry. barbtries Oct 30 #23

I am so sorry UpInArms Oct 30 #24

So sorry. I lost my husband in 2021, still miss him so much. TommieMommy Oct 30 #25

Peace and comfort to you. This has to be so difficult. Tanuki Oct 30 #26

So sorry. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Oct 30 #27

Sorry for your loss. Emile Oct 30 #28

My condolences from me and SO Tetrachloride Oct 30 #29

my heart goes out to you. my deepest sympathies. somaticexperiencing Oct 30 #30

Oh, I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved. I sincerely hope that you're surrounded by the love & caring of your The_REAL_Ecumenist Oct 30 #31

I wish you peace with the knowledge that your care for your husband over the years made a tremendous difference... hlthe2b Oct 30 #32

I wish you and your son Strength and Courage in the days ahead. ZZenith Oct 30 #33

I am mgardener Oct 30 #34

We hear you, we're listening, keep talking through it as much as you need or want to. Think. Again. Oct 30 #35

Heartfelt condolences kairos12 Oct 30 #36

I'm here, I see you, JustAnotherGen Oct 30 #37

I'm so sorry. blogslug Oct 30 #38

I'm so sorry... PCIntern Oct 30 #39

I am sorry for your loss. Grumpy Old Guy Oct 30 #40

I am so sorry. Peace and strength to you and his other family and friends. mucholderthandirt Oct 30 #41

Condolences sarge43 Oct 30 #42

"wrap your mind around it"? (natural thoughts) He was/is loved. He loved you. You & son were there. Stuff happens. Bernardo de La Paz Oct 30 #43

Well said soandso Oct 30 #241

I'm so sorry. My sympathy to you and your family. livetohike Oct 30 #44

I'm sorry for your loss. NameAlreadyTaken Oct 30 #45

I'm so sorry underpants Oct 30 #46

I am so sorry. Wishing light and peace Dr. Shepper Oct 30 #47

So very sorry Tesha Oct 30 #48

I'm so sorry. KarenS Oct 30 #49

Sorry for your loss. Brainfodder Oct 30 #50

I'm so sorry for you. TheBlackAdder Oct 30 #51

One step in front of the other you can do this Botany Oct 30 #52

I'm so very sorry GigiLeigh Oct 30 #53

Sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. akbacchus_BC Oct 30 #54

Condolences, 1monster gademocrat7 Oct 30 #55

My condolences on the loss of your beloved, 1monster Niagara Oct 30 #56

Deepest condolences. NNadir Oct 30 #57

I will be thinking of you. It's a lot to process mahina Oct 30 #58

This is so sad malaise Oct 30 #59

I'm so sorry. LisaM Oct 30 #60

I'm so sorry to hear about your husband passing. Liberal In Texas Oct 30 #61

RIP Snoopy 7 Oct 30 #62

So sorry for your loss, MacKasey Oct 30 #63

So very sorry what you are going through. JohnSJ Oct 30 #64

Sorry for your loss. May your heart find peace. ancianita Oct 30 #65

Deepest condolences GeoWilliam750 Oct 30 #66

I am truely sorry for your loss. Old Crank Oct 30 #67

Sorry for your loss Jersey Devil Oct 30 #68

My deepest sympathy bdamomma Oct 30 #69

You are probably in shock mnhtnbb Oct 30 #70

So, so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. n/t iluvtennis Oct 30 #71

So very sorry snowybirdie Oct 30 #72

I am so sorry. usedtobedemgurl Oct 30 #73

So sorry for your loss. Dear_Prudence Oct 30 #74

Holding you and your family in the light. Your husband was lucky to have you japple Oct 30 #75

Deepest condolences SheltieLover Oct 30 #76

Such a shock. I'm so very sorry for phylny Oct 30 #77

That's terrible. I'm very sorry harumph Oct 30 #78

My sympathies. pandr32 Oct 30 #79

Hugs to you and your family Sea A Chell Oct 30 #80

So very sorry flakey_foont Oct 30 #81

I'm so sorry. ramen Oct 30 #82

my biggest fear.... samnsara Oct 30 #83

I can't imagine what you've just experienced, but as we age I guess we have to accept this is going to happen Vinca Oct 30 #84

I am so sorry for your loss ecstatic Oct 30 #85

It's a shock even when we know and I'm sorry you are going through it. Solly Mack Oct 30 #86

So sorry for your loss. Groundhawg Oct 30 #87

{{{hugs}}} Delphinus Oct 30 #88

I am sorry you True Blue American Oct 30 #89

So very sorry samplegirl Oct 30 #90

My condolences for the loss of your dear one. oasis Oct 30 #91

I'm so sorry for SunsetDreams2 Oct 30 #92

Soooooooooooooo sorry for you and your stepson.....I have no words of comfort. a kennedy Oct 30 #93

I am so so sorry. Janeyre Oct 30 #94

Peace (n/t) PJMcK Oct 30 #95

I am so sorry, 1monster dmr Oct 30 #96

I'm sorry Bettie Oct 30 #97

My deepest condolences for you and your family. LiberalLoner Oct 30 #98

Hugs Y'all... My Sincere Condolences... MayReasonRule Oct 30 #99

My deepest condolences La Coliniere Oct 30 #100

I cannot even begin to know what you've just been through. I don't even know the depth of what it ... marble falls Oct 30 #101

So sorry for your loss Americanme Oct 30 #102

I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Oct 30 #103

Sending love, support, and hugs cally Oct 30 #104

I'm so sorry. highplainsdem Oct 30 #105

I'm so sorry, 1monster. arkielib Oct 30 #106

I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself. Nt spooky3 Oct 30 #107

I am so sorry for your loss Ruby the Liberal Oct 30 #108

May you and your family find peace. riversedge Oct 30 #109

So sorry for your loss SilverDawg Oct 30 #110

I am so sorry for your loss Deep State Witch Oct 30 #111

I'm so very sorry. My deepest sympahties to you and your family. NT Happy Hoosier Oct 30 #112

I'm so sorry 1monster... democratsruletheday Oct 30 #113

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Oct 30 #114

My husband and I have been together since 1982. I don't know what I'd do if he died either? lark Oct 30 #115

I am so sorry. Be kind to yourself, give yourself time to process and grieve. Bumbles Oct 30 #116

I think you may be in shock. I'm emotionally wrapping my arms around you in a comforting hug. Joinfortmill Oct 30 #117

... spanone Oct 30 #118

j am sorry FightFight Oct 30 #119

My thoughts are with you. JustinBulletin Oct 30 #120

I'm so very sorry cate94 Oct 30 #121

I'm so sorry.. onecaliberal Oct 30 #122

Accept my sincere condolences. ThePartyThatListens Oct 30 #123

I am so sorry Lulu KC Oct 30 #124

I unexpectedly lost my brother TBF Oct 30 #125

I am so sorry for you and your son. I glad you felt you could come here to share your grief. Fla Dem Oct 30 #126

So sorry for you and your stepson. marked50 Oct 30 #127

Condolences to you and your family. Mr. Mustard 2023 Oct 30 #128

My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Oct 30 #129

I am so deeply sorry for your loss and the trauma you and your son have been through. Trueblue Texan Oct 30 #130

You are still in shock. Ilsa Oct 30 #131

Sending you all kinds of strength, TruthAlwaysWins Oct 30 #132

Your loss already happened over time. The good you've done masks this last bit. Festivito Oct 30 #133

My deepest sympathies to you and your family mountain grammy Oct 30 #134

My heart goes out to you and your son... GoldenMezzoDiva Oct 30 #135

I'm so very sorry, 1monster. LuckyCharms Oct 30 #136

I'm so sorry. MaryMagdaline Oct 30 #137

Condolences for you and your family. diehardblue Oct 30 #138

You will go through a wide range of emotions RainCaster Oct 30 #139

So sorry to read this peggysue2 Oct 30 #140

My deepest condolences. KS Toronado Oct 30 #141

My sincere condolences ((hugs)) 💐 Deuxcents Oct 30 #143

Im so sorry for your family's loss berniesandersmittens Oct 30 #144

I am so sorry. May his memeories be a blessing to you and your family. debm55 Oct 30 #145

... 2 Meow Momma Oct 30 #146

Your long beloved husband Clouds Passing Oct 30 #147

I am so very sorry for your loss! You have my very deepest condolences. I am glad that DU provided you a safe place to LaMouffette Oct 30 #148

I'm so sorry for your loss 0rganism Oct 30 #149

I'm so sorry for your loss. doubleplusgood Oct 30 #150

I am so sorry to learn of your husband's passing RT Atlanta Oct 30 #151

I am so sorry IbogaProject Oct 30 #152

Please check in now and again and let us know you are okay. Anonymous we may be, but we care about you. Maru Kitteh Oct 30 #153

I hear you, 1monster. TygrBright Oct 30 #154

I am so so sorry... CaptainTruth Oct 30 #155

I am so sorry. murielm99 Oct 30 #156

My deepest sympathies to you & your family. -nt CrispyQ Oct 30 #157

... AKwannabe Oct 30 #158

So, so sorry 1monster. I'm glad you could share with us here. KPN Oct 30 #159

My condolences to you and your family relayerbob Oct 30 #160

Sorry to hear this. Lost for words, but bluestarone Oct 30 #162

What a shock! My condolences and hugs to you. Passages Oct 30 #163

I am so very sorry Highway61 Oct 30 #164

My thoughts are with you Coexist Oct 30 #165

You don't have to know how you feel---just feel--or not Maeve Oct 30 #166

My condolences for your loss. Xavier Breath Oct 30 #167

I know. Me too. 22 months ago. Richluu Oct 30 #168

I'm so sorry. I lost my father to Parkinson's and Alzheimer's. Liberty Belle Oct 30 #169

I know. Me too. 22 months ago. Richluu Oct 30 #170

May his memory be an eternal blessing. róisín_dubh Oct 30 #171

Sorry this happened the way it did. Arthur_Frain Oct 30 #172

You have my sympathy anyway. Linda ladeewolf Oct 30 #173

I am so very sorry... Spazito Oct 30 #174

I am so sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and all the family. c-rational Oct 30 #175

I am so sorry kimbutgar Oct 30 #176

I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork Oct 30 #177

So very sorry DownriverDem Oct 30 #178

Sending love and peace to you Wild blueberry Oct 30 #179

I'm so sorry for your loss bikes and bunnies Oct 30 #180

I'm sorry for your loss. Dan Oct 30 #181

I am so sorry for your loss. PA Democrat Oct 30 #182

I am so sorry. I pray for strength for you. LoisB Oct 30 #183

I am so very sorry for your loss. sheshe2 Oct 30 #184

So very sad for you and your sons people Oct 30 #185

I am so very sorry. StarryNite Oct 30 #186

Sincere condolences Mr.Bill Oct 30 #187

So so sorry! PortTack Oct 30 #188

I'm so sorry for your loss Danmel Oct 30 #189

Grief Nigrum Cattus Oct 30 #190

This saddens me greatly CountAllVotes Oct 30 #191

its a blessing, but its damned too fast. my uncle's mother in law was slipping into AZ, had a heart attack pansypoo53219 Oct 30 #192

My deepest sympathies Picaro Oct 30 #193

I'm so sorry for your loss. I just lost my husband 3 weeks ago . sueh Oct 30 #194

Sending hugs and love Tree Lady Oct 30 #195

So sorry The Third Doctor Oct 30 #196

We are never ready. Keep the memories with you. LiberalFighter Oct 30 #197

I'm so sorry for your enormous loss, 1monster Wicked Blue Oct 30 #198

So sorry for your loss. evolves Oct 30 #199

This is one of the hardest things in life, and my heart goes out to you. colorado_ufo Oct 30 #200

I wish I could hug you. pacalo Oct 30 #201

Condolences and admiration DFW Oct 30 #202

My deepest condolences to you on the loss virgdem Oct 30 #203

A surreal moment for you and your stepson. Condolences. OAITW r.2.0 Oct 30 #204

Condolences to you and your family. Peace & love be with all of you in the days to come. Hekate Oct 30 #205

My sympathy goes out to you ms.pamela Oct 30 #206

I am so sorry for your loss. StrictlyRockers Oct 30 #207

Hugs sakabatou Oct 30 #208

So Very Sorry ravjav Oct 30 #209

Every sympathy to you and your family, Alice B. Oct 30 #210

Some hugs from far away. Teacher of the Year Oct 30 #211

I am so sorry 1monster. Diamond_Dog Oct 30 #212

Just holding you in my thoughts.. Permanut Oct 30 #213

Sending you love and emotional support. calimary Oct 30 #214

My heart goes out to you. ificandream Oct 30 #215

You have my sincerest condolences. I feel your pain. generalbetrayus Oct 30 #216

I am so very sorry for your loss.... Dem4life1970 Oct 30 #217

PEACE Windy Apple Oct 30 #218

I'm so sorry this happened to you and your son wryter2000 Oct 30 #219

Deepest sympathies to you and your family. Duncan Grant Oct 30 #220

May peace come to you and your son. NoSheep Oct 30 #221

So, so sorry senseandsensibility Oct 30 #222

I am so so sorry happy feet Oct 30 #223

I am so sorry for you loss sdfernando Oct 30 #224

I'm so sorry. You did everything you possibly could have done. Warpy Oct 30 #225

I am so very sorry for your loss. Holding you in warmth and light. CousinIT Oct 30 #226

"" AllaN01Bear Oct 30 #227

So very sorry SleeplessinSoCal Oct 30 #228

Dearest 1monster, condolences of the highest order MagickMuffin Oct 30 #229

I'm terribly sorry misanthrope Oct 30 #230

I am so sorry KT2000 Oct 30 #231

So very sorry. n/t rambler_american Oct 30 #232

Sorry for your loss. It has been almost 5 years since my husband died. appleannie1 Oct 30 #233

Oh my dear I am so sorry nolabear Oct 30 #234

Sorry for your loss. 💔 sarchasm Oct 30 #235

So Sorry for your Loss Homoudont Oct 30 #236

My deepest condolences LostOne4Ever Oct 30 #237

Love and prayers for you and your family DinahMoeHum Oct 30 #238

I am so very sorry. benfranklin1776 Oct 30 #239

My condolences Catherine Vincent Oct 30 #240

This is my nightmare.... bleedingulcers Oct 30 #242

Sincerest condolences. nt. anamnua Oct 30 #243

Woah, that's just Awful! My condolences. Especially bc it was a sudden shock... electric_blue68 Oct 30 #244

I am so sorry. xmas74 Oct 30 #245

I am so sorry for your loss... Demsrule86 Oct 30 #246

I am so sorry for your loss. Take time, and take care of yourself. liberalla Oct 30 #247

I'm so sorry for your loss. Beacool Oct 30 #248

All Our Sympathies ProfessorGAC Oct 30 #249

My heart bleeds for you soldierant Oct 30 #250

I am so sorry for your loss HipChick Oct 30 #251

Please add my sympathy to this outpouring. babylonsister Oct 30 #252

May you be loved in the future, so sorry for your loss. Ellipsis Oct 30 #253

So very sorry for both you and your son crimycarny Oct 30 #254

Oh wow, so very sorry 😞 FirstLight Oct 30 #255

So, so sorry LibinMo Oct 30 #256

I'm so sorry. Even it you expect it "someday" it is always such a shock to the system. flying_wahini Oct 30 #257

Sorry for your loss tishaLA Oct 30 #258

Big hugs from me. Losing someone suddenly when you think there's more time is the worst... Violet_Crumble Oct 30 #259

Condolences majdrfrtim Oct 31 #260

Condolences to you and your family ribrepin Oct 31 #261

Great peace and comfort to you and yours. TheKentuckian Oct 31 #262