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marmar

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Mon Nov 4, 2024, 09:32 AM Nov 4

GOP plot to keep married women "trapped" [View all]

"I am scared every day": Experts say GOP men targeting no-fault divorce to keep women "trapped"
As worries grow after Dobbs, experts fear restricting no-fault divorce could be a death sentence for some women

By Tatyana Tandanpolie
Staff Writer
Published November 4, 2024 6:00AM (EST)


(Salon) Raquell Barton was knee-deep in her doctorate program at the University of Memphis when her husband dropped a bomb on her: he wanted a divorce.

....(snip)....

He wanted out. She didn't. Despite her protests, the pair legally separated in 2018. After six months of separation, Barton's husband still hadn't filed for divorce even though he'd started seeing someone new. Fed up, she felt she had to take the initiative. The divorce was finalized in 2019.

Her divorce was as no-fault as divorces come, she said, even if it wasn't what she wanted.

"I went into [marriage] hoping that I was gonna have that Happily Ever After fairy tale, but sometimes it just doesn't happen," said Barton, now a certified divorce coach helping other women who didn't want their marriages to end in Arkansas, Texas, Tennesee and Oklahoma. "It's not that I don't believe in the sanctity of marriage, but sometimes it just doesn't work out. You just have to let people go."

....(snip)....

Though still only emerging from the fringes, the burgeoning movement against no-fault divorce has gained something of a foothold in a handful of ultraconservative states, including Texas and Oklahoma. The effort also has supporters up to the highest levels of government, from state Republican party platforms and state proposals to House Speaker Mike Johnson, R-La., and Vice Presidential candidate JD Vance. ................(more)

https://www.salon.com/2024/11/04/i-am-scared-every-day-experts-say-men-targeting-no-fault-divorce-to-keep-women-trapped/






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Seems magat males are quite threatened by women's autonomy SheltieLover Nov 4 #1
Fundamentally, that's the whole thing. yardwork Nov 4 #2
Their outrage at the mere suggestion that some magat women might have an independent thought and vote autonmously speaks SheltieLover Nov 4 #13
Exactly! yardwork Nov 4 #23
Absolutely SheltieLover Nov 4 #24
Grand Old Patriarchy, indeed. TSExile Nov 4 #3
The buy-bull says women are to be subservient to men,... magicarpet Nov 4 #4
The Old Testament Cirsium Nov 4 #20
Not just married women. ALL women. valleyrogue Nov 4 #5
I am one of those childless cat ladies they love to deride. TSExile Nov 4 #17
It is not derision jfz9580m Nov 4 #19
Marriage and divorce laws are state matters when it doesn't involve constitutional rights. valleyrogue Nov 4 #6
Grrr kimbutgar Nov 4 #7
GOP destroys rights; Democratic Party extends rights. . . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Nov 4 #8
Democrats embrace the future; GOP fears the future and those not precisely like themselves. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Nov 4 #21
Y'all Queda rears its ugly head. (NT) Otto_Harper Nov 4 #9
Won't anybody think of the poor private detectives? malthaussen Nov 4 #10
I didn't think they'd stop at just reproductive slavery. patphil Nov 4 #11
I had a very amicable no-fault divorce jfz9580m Nov 4 #12
It's a patriarchy thing. Patriarchy is under siege, and they're shit-scared. n/t TygrBright Nov 4 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author Wiz Imp Nov 4 #15
This is the way it used to be Figarosmom Nov 4 #16
The South Korean women were/are on point. TSExile Nov 4 #18
"...Those efforts "all serve men"..." Solly Mack Nov 4 #22
K&R Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Nov 4 #25
If they do this in TX, OK, and add TN. Captain Zero Nov 4 #26
W/o NF divorce, you'll have scenarios like this: no_hypocrisy Nov 5 #27
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