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[Lifeafter70]

24. I do and will not be breaking bread with them

My father, sister and two brothers are trump supporters. I have not spoken to them since my father's funeral two years ago. I didn't speak to my dad after my mom's funeral in 2017. I tolerated him before my mom died. After her death he moved in with my Trumper sister. One evening during my mom's short illness, he told me how worthless I was and my children were losers. He stated I tried "shove my daughter lifestyle down his throat and I was a terrible mother for not raising my kids in the church" that is a direct quote. I wasn't informed of when or where my mom's funeral was. Joke was on them I was raised in the church and knew most funeral masses are held on Saturday and had no trouble finding the information I needed. The only reason I attended my father's funeral was for my middle child, he needed me to drive. When my son had finished his first cancer treatment in 2016, his grandfather had let us stay at his home for two weeks after his release from the hospital in Los Angeles. We both lived in other states and he had to go back to hospital in two weeks.
I have no need for those whose values are so different from mine. Being family isn't enough, especially since I know how they really feel about me and my daughter.