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Sympthsical

(10,411 posts)
15. Do what we can where we can
Thu Nov 14, 2024, 08:36 AM
Nov 14

I sometimes wonder if social media create a problem because it makes it extremely easy to focus solely on macro issues while ignoring the local. You come home, you log on, and "What's happening in the wide world!" But at the end of the day, we only have so much individual power. We can vote, donate, volunteer for national causes. Whatever happens happens. There is only so much personal control we have.

But in our own lives - social, familial, professional, and community - we have a great deal of control over what kind of daily environment we want to live in. Good friends, good hobbies, good causes, good projects where we can tangibly reap the rewards our efforts earn.

I am loving my career change to nursing. Been doing clinicals in long-term care and rehab facilities. Absolutely loving it. Love interacting with the patients, being able to make their day better, interacting with them, trying to be a positive presence, trying to make their lives easier and improve their health where possible. And the benefits are tangible right away. You get that feedback, because we mutually become each other's best part of the day.

Yeah, there's rough spots. Tough cases, admins who you want to roll your eyes at every ten seconds, but it feels like I'm accomplishing useful things in the moment, every day, just by virtue of getting out there.

I wish for everyone to find something in their lives that gives that kind of feeling, no matter what it is. Where you can go do things and get that positive satisfaction regularly as feedback.

Generativity is an important component of human development as we get older.

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Age 75, I don't believe anything will get better in my lifetime Walleye Nov 14 #1
It could walleye if you make your focus and circle smaller. boston bean Nov 14 #2
Thanks for the advice, but if my circle gets any smaller, I'll disappear altogether Walleye Nov 14 #3
Ha ha. I meant make it more local. Find nearby like minded people. Use them for support. Have some boston bean Nov 14 #4
That is an excellent idea, I am inspired by your post. Walleye Nov 14 #5
These people want us to feel despair. To feel scared. boston bean Nov 14 #7
Yup. Life as a vale of tears is not for me either. Magoo48 Nov 14 #29
This!!! Blue_Roses Nov 14 #6
Know exactly how you feel. Katinfl Nov 14 #14
I'm 82, and have thought the same thing. Bumbles Nov 14 #19
Agreed Prairie Gates Nov 14 #8
Agree with all this.nt jfz9580m Nov 14 #9
This is the first site I look at each morning mgardener Nov 14 #10
Agree: "Do not let this sick man rob you of your happiness in your life." FailureToCommunicate Nov 14 #11
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 14 #24
Hi Sunshine!! A new day and GP6971 Nov 14 #26
how sad is it that she has no friends mercuryblues Nov 14 #33
Best wishes Shrek Nov 14 #12
I am still around. And will be piping in. Probably more than I should. boston bean Nov 14 #13
Do what we can where we can Sympthsical Nov 14 #15
This is my plan as well. Last time he Luciferous Nov 14 #16
My self care...everyday find something to blow the stink of t-rump off! PortTack Nov 14 #17
I'm also working on changing habits and finding ways to be more in the moment. Bumbles Nov 14 #18
Only buy what you need, cancel social media - do not engage MAGA people. 617Blue Nov 14 #20
Ditto! KatK Nov 14 #21
When my kids were small and BlueSky3 Nov 14 #22
If MVP Harris' campaign taught folks anything... PunkinPi Nov 14 #23
Thank you for this post boston bean, especially the last paragraph. It helps. c-rational Nov 14 #25
As usual, you post words I need to hear. Love you, my dear! Scrivener7 Nov 14 #27
Luv ya right back! 💕 boston bean Nov 14 #32
I like your thinking bb. Clouds Passing Nov 14 #28
I so appreciate this OP HoosierDebbie Nov 14 #30
We have a strong democratic community Keepthesoulalive Nov 14 #31
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