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UniqueUserName

(324 posts)
97. Rec'd! It is not defeatism to walk away
Tue Nov 26, 2024, 10:47 AM
Nov 2024

I concur with your well-written post.

I also don't appreciate the lecture by some which can be summed up, "Be a good foot soldier. Don't be negative. Keep on keeping on." There is a difference between encouraging and motivating people and berating them for acting in what is the best course of action for them.

It's similar to market enthusiasts saying, "Never bet against the market. Traditionally, nothing returns on investment like the stock market over time. Don't try to time the market. . ." When, of course, EVERYBODY has to time the market. No human can wait indefinitely for stocks to recover. We are on a time schedule. There are people who lost everything in crash of '29 who never recovered and who did everything right. They lost everything due to the timing of their birth.

I do appreciate genuinely encouraging people/posts. ---Not so fond of the posts that are pseudo-encouraging which amount to stealth bragging and finger wagging.

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That's just what they want us to feel. Ocelot II Nov 2024 #1
Nearly a century of Reich wingers grinding down the population will cause many to give up. AZ8theist Nov 2024 #7
I'm not gonna play, either. calimary Nov 2024 #16
Me neither XanaDUer2 Nov 2024 #18
Who? claudette Nov 2024 #52
THEY being the GOP and Trump's minions. Ocelot II Nov 2024 #59
Then claudette Nov 2024 #60
If SCOTUS says a sitting president can't be prosecuted, Ocelot II Nov 2024 #61
Again claudette Nov 2024 #62
They did postpone it, by dismissing it without prejudice. Ocelot II Nov 2024 #63
So then claudette Nov 2024 #64
Because that's Trump's line, which the media will always take up. Ocelot II Nov 2024 #68
Except that by the time TFG's term ends in Jan. 2029, Seeking Serenity Nov 2024 #71
And he isn't in good health. Odds are he doesn't live that long anyway Attilatheblond Nov 2024 #100
Yes! Vance appeared in Ohio in a blink. Hope22 Nov 2024 #104
Correct. It's not dead, simple delayed. dwayneb Nov 2024 #88
Also, I believe if Garland had moved sooner, SCOTUS Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 2024 #98
I don't think so Cirsium Nov 2024 #72
Rec'd! It is not defeatism to walk away UniqueUserName Nov 2024 #97
Same. Silver Gaia Nov 2024 #82
Same here ScratchCat Nov 2024 #2
Pathetic attitude. nilram Nov 2024 #26
I understand your disappointment, but please rethink "never voting again" Polybius Nov 2024 #33
Maybe they can come kacekwl Nov 2024 #47
"not voting again" really? dwayneb Nov 2024 #89
There's not much I can do, either. Harker Nov 2024 #3
I'm right there with you. lees1975 Nov 2024 #4
Entirely Cirsium Nov 2024 #43
I understand being done. MuseRider Nov 2024 #5
No, Sorry, but, I won't give the ass holes that satisfaction. republianmushroom Nov 2024 #6
"I'll just sit here and watch the train wreck in slow motion." JoseBalow Nov 2024 #8
I don't think it will be "slow motion". StarryNite Nov 2024 #9
Hear, hear! GPV Nov 2024 #54
Yes, I think you are right PatSeg Nov 2024 #102
Understandable. At the same time, that's exactly what they want KPN Nov 2024 #10
the defeatism of some DUer is, for lack of a better word, disgusting. onenote Nov 2024 #11
Perhaps what you see as defeatism Otto_Harper Nov 2024 #12
No, what I see is defeatism. Grieve for losing. But don't quit. Get up and fight where you can. onenote Nov 2024 #17
It is not defeatism Cirsium Nov 2024 #44
No, its defeatism and giving up. Elessar Zappa Nov 2024 #32
I will offer that tilting at windmills Otto_Harper Nov 2024 #83
I wish I had every minute back of the volunteering, following the details to witness this desperate journey of a country Hope22 Nov 2024 #36
Great attitude! I look forward to more positive posts from you going forward! W_HAMILTON Nov 2024 #37
"Defeatism" claudette Nov 2024 #66
No hope of "winning" anything? onenote Nov 2024 #69
We lost when claudette Nov 2024 #79
You do realize that there are other elections don't you? Or are you one of the CT types that believe there will never be onenote Nov 2024 #81
Huh? claudette Nov 2024 #86
Which certainly sounds like another way of saying, with respect to elections, why bother voting. onenote Nov 2024 #96
Not to me claudette Nov 2024 #101
Will it be the death of 1000 cuts? Prairie_Seagull Nov 2024 #13
You are perhaps older than me. I'm 76; yet, I have many ways to resist. Magoo48 Nov 2024 #14
If there's an Indivisible group in your area, FIND IT! And GET INVOLVED! calimary Nov 2024 #22
Yup Magoo48 Nov 2024 #25
Limited locations dwayneb Nov 2024 #87
This is a great idea. SupportSanity Nov 2024 #103
I'm done paying attention and donating money as well. There's absolutely nothing I can do at this point to prevent beaglelover Nov 2024 #15
That's incredibly wrong headed. onenote Nov 2024 #21
Me, too! H2O Man Nov 2024 #19
Please let us know bagimin Nov 2024 #93
Sounds like a plan YoshidaYui Nov 2024 #20
Us younger ones will be dealing with climate change. Kaleva Nov 2024 #23
Yep....and you never would believe that a good portion of us ... Hope22 Nov 2024 #28
Sure Cirsium Nov 2024 #45
Who's getting into nonsense? Kaleva Nov 2024 #80
I notice their timing of these bits of joy is perfect! Hope22 Nov 2024 #24
Caved from the top down Cirsium Nov 2024 #55
It's exactly like life in a dysfunctional family. Hope22 Nov 2024 #67
Post removed Post removed Nov 2024 #27
We have to cut the old guard loose, it isn't about them being bad people TheKentuckian Nov 2024 #42
Of course Biden could of pushed him , questionseverything Nov 2024 #58
I eagerly await Traitor tRump's demise. 634-5789 Nov 2024 #29
Let's just face it. The "guardrails" are gone. "Good night and good Luck". EJ Morrow. We're going to need it. Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #30
I won't "face it". Elessar Zappa Nov 2024 #34
Fight on for sure. The insurrectionist act will soon be activated to quell any "protest" (Putin/ Orban 101). If we have Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #39
Thank you for your conviction. I have it as well, but feel very let down by DOJ. How do you overcome that? Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #77
Yes Meowmee Nov 2024 #70
Rachel Maddow, Joy Reid, Lawrence O'Donnell, Chris Hayes and Ali Veshi sure did. "They" will target MSNBC and PBS?? Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #74
truth Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #75
Go local... stillcool Nov 2024 #31
I won't be made useless Mountain Mule Nov 2024 #35
I'm getting on and I don't see how I can fight back. ...nt Jarqui Nov 2024 #38
Hope is the last thing that dies peacebuzzard Nov 2024 #40
When they throw justice away, what's left? Emile Nov 2024 #41
I'm with you. The inmates are running the show Joinfortmill Nov 2024 #46
Same here yankee87 Nov 2024 #48
I just wish the "I'M DONE!" people would be quietly done. Iggo Nov 2024 #49
I'll make it easy for you to discern Otto_Harper Nov 2024 #65
Gosh --I hope the rest of us 75,000,000 Democrats don't feel that way New Haven Nov 2024 #50
All the ones I know do claudette Nov 2024 #57
Me, too claudette Nov 2024 #51
Justr another huge pill i had to swallow, BUT bluestarone Nov 2024 #53
Rollover and die if you must Asa13 Nov 2024 #56
Sadly... 2naSalit Nov 2024 #73
I'm tired. Lunabell Nov 2024 #76
I cannot blame you kansasobama Nov 2024 #78
The way things appear now moniss Nov 2024 #84
Jack Smith had no choice, but he did the right thing by arranging it so the judge granted the dismissal pnwmom Nov 2024 #85
In some ways Old Crank Nov 2024 #90
I'm just not going to cooperate with them Historic NY Nov 2024 #91
I feel the same. It's not simply that we lose, it's that our own Dems are letting us down. RicROC Nov 2024 #92
Weak response? Trueblue Texan Nov 2024 #94
Every four years there is a presidential election. He won this election because more Americans Autumn Nov 2024 #95
I heard the same defeatism in 2016. Then 2018 happened!! And 2020. Callie1979 Nov 2024 #99
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