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In reply to the discussion: I'm coining a new word: ANBO [View all]

momta

(4,117 posts)
4. "They/them" is hard for me too.
Sat Feb 10, 2024, 02:32 PM
Feb 2024

I have an English degree, and I can be a bit obnoxious in correcting people's grammar. I finally had to just say to myself, "I love my family, I love my anbo, and if this is what they want and need, then I will do my best to adjust."

I later read that, according to Wikipedia, the first use of the singular "they" in literature is from the poem Guillaume de Palerme, from 1375. Not sure why, but that made using a little easier for me.

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Just "offspring" would probably work, too. TwilightZone Feb 2024 #1
Could use kid. Doesn't really imply age. NoRethugFriends Feb 2024 #2
I love this! Lefta Dissenter Feb 2024 #3
"They/them" is hard for me too. momta Feb 2024 #4
I think it is awesome that you are supporting your ANBO this way! LostOne4Ever Feb 2024 #5
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