Bereavement

susanna

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18. I was not a regular on this group when you posted this originally.

Fri Apr 12, 2019, 04:40 AM

Apr 2019

I am so very sorry for your loss, all this time later.

As a matter of fact, you were caregiving for your mother as I was caregiving for my late sister (she died in December, 2018).

All I can say is that there is no relief for the caregiver.

Caregiving was something you could do when your mother was in her deepest distress.

I believe that you did right by her, and I hope for peace for you as you navigate your grief. Because I suspect it is still there. I know mine is.

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My mom passed away last night... [View all] cynatnite Sep 2018 OP

Om Mani Padme Hum WhiteTara Sep 2018 #1

My condolences left-of-center2012 Sep 2018 #2

cynatnite, I am so sorry for your loss. badhair77 Sep 2018 #3

You are worn out and grieving. My condolences. Take some time for you when you are ready. CurtEastPoint Sep 2018 #4

It's OK to feel that way. And it does take time... TreasonousBastard Sep 2018 #5

I wish there were an easy way to get thru loss and grief. dixiegrrrrl Sep 2018 #6

Sad for your loss. I'd never dream to give advice about grief. IADEMO2004 Sep 2018 #7

The cycles of life.. Permanut Sep 2018 #8

Oh no. So, so sorry, Dear cynatnite. Laffy Kat Sep 2018 #9

I'm glad to see you here, my dear cynatnite... CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2018 #10

When I lost my mother I was 24 and one thought transformed my grief lostnfound Sep 2018 #11

This is beautiful easttexaslefty Sep 2018 #14

I am sorry for your loss Gothmog Sep 2018 #12

i'm so sorry orleans Sep 2018 #13

I lost my mother this August Farmer-Rick Nov 2018 #15

My sister thought I would feel relief... cynatnite Nov 2018 #16

💔 Stellar Dec 2018 #17

I was not a regular on this group when you posted this originally. susanna Apr 2019 #18