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Bereavement

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1. I lost my father three years ago

Thu Apr 9, 2020, 02:04 PM

Apr 2020

and I did not go psycho on my wife. Maybe your husband is also feeling the stress from the covid situation.

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Looking for advice, bereavement related. [View all] Coventina Apr 2020 OP

I lost my father three years ago drray23 Apr 2020 #1

Thanks for your personal insight. That is very helpful to know. Coventina Apr 2020 #3

Thank you for sharing your personal story. Coventina Apr 2020 #4

Did he never say "extremely hurtful, intentionally wounding things" PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2020 #5

We've been together 23 years, and I can count on one hand Coventina Apr 2020 #12

I hope you can talk to him about this. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2020 #22

Some issues are buried deep randr Apr 2020 #6

Maybe he's not fully aware Turbineguy Apr 2020 #8

Thanks. I will think about this. Coventina Apr 2020 #14

Thank you for sharing your story. Coventina Apr 2020 #15

Anger is usually easier to access janterry Apr 2020 #10

My dad passed in 2003. Sure it shook things up a bit, yonder Apr 2020 #11

Thank you! Coventina Apr 2020 #17

The abuse has been all verbal, not physical. Coventina Apr 2020 #19

Whatever path I hope you will soon find a happy place. IADEMO2004 Apr 2020 #24

Seek help Tree-Hugger Apr 2020 #21

Is there anything else that's happening such as job insecurity? lettucebe Apr 2020 #23

Hi Coventina SheltieLover Apr 2020 #25

If this is highly unusual, I would watch him closely for medical problems. Frustratedlady Apr 2020 #26