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Bereavement

Marthe48

(19,336 posts)

25. No it doesn't

Reply to Harker (Reply #13)

Tue Jan 26, 2021, 12:58 PM

Jan 2021

I'm different from when he was here, in some good ways, some antisocial, I bet.

Thank you for your thoughtful words.

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It has been 4 years since my husband died [View all] Marthe48 Jan 2021 OP

It does take time. safeinOhio Jan 2021 #1

I wish you well Botany Jan 2021 #2

The wine dark sea Marthe48 Jan 2021 #17

You are clearly very brave and very strong. I have no useful advice, just a (((((Marthe48))))). niyad Jan 2021 #3

Thank you :) Marthe48 Jan 2021 #18

Much love to you. redwitch Jan 2021 #4

Always glad when i hear stories like this Marthe48 Jan 2021 #19

Make a shrine to him SheltieLover Jan 2021 #5

Good idea... Karadeniz Jan 2021 #9

oh, SheltieLover Marthe48 Jan 2021 #20

It's tough, but you will eventually move on and not have memories dominate your life. Frustratedlady Jan 2021 #6

I changed bedrooms and other things Marthe48 Jan 2021 #21

My former boyfriend died suddenly in Oct Wawannabe Jan 2021 #7

My deepest sympathy to you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #22

However you manage to get through this TNNurse Jan 2021 #8

I lost my dad when I was 20 Marthe48 Jan 2021 #23

When my died died there were three of us at home TNNurse Jan 2021 #26

It is hard for people to understand Marthe48 Jan 2021 #29

One has to wonder if those were dreams or visitations... Karadeniz Jan 2021 #10

I think we are seeing each other Marthe48 Jan 2021 #16

They say the differences between dreams and visitations are that visitations are much clearer and Karadeniz Jan 2021 #40

I think everyone that loses a loved one like you shares the same pain. cstanleytech Jan 2021 #11

I do better if someone is really old Marthe48 Jan 2021 #30

Wishing you sweet memories of your beloved husband. Danmel Jan 2021 #12

Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #24

It's not always easy to accept death as a part of life. Harker Jan 2021 #13

No it doesn't Marthe48 Jan 2021 #25

My experience with grief is that it never goes away, but... NNadir Jan 2021 #14

Better to have loved and lost Marthe48 Jan 2021 #27

Your post contains a lot of hope, Marthe. BobTheSubgenius Jan 2021 #15

Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #28

My heart goes out to you Kimber432 Jan 2021 #31

Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #32

Dear Martha48 gademocrat7 Jan 2021 #33

Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #37

The fourth anniversary of my wife's death is a month away central scrutinizer Jan 2021 #34

I am sorry for your loss Marthe48 Jan 2021 #38

maybe instead of putting pics away- mopinko Jan 2021 #35

Sending you love and peace... Freedomofspeech Jan 2021 #36

Thank you Marthe48 Jan 2021 #39

So sorry for your pain but I completely understand. littlemissmartypants Jan 2021 #41

I'm sorry for your loss Marthe48 Jan 2021 #42