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Bereavement

Marthe48

(19,589 posts)

9. I lost my husband 7 1/2 years ago

Reply to maptap22 (Reply #8)

Sun Sep 1, 2024, 08:07 PM

Sep 2024

The veneer of feeling normal gets a little thicker as time passes. I have some pictures of my husband where I can see them, and I talk to him.
I don't mind talking to men when I'm out, but it's just chitchat, and keeps me sociable.

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I know I'm not ready [View all] duncang Aug 2024 OP

You didn't have to say anything.... FarPoint Aug 2024 #1

A return smile is perfect Clouds Passing Aug 2024 #2

When you're ready to say something, you will. Don't stress it. bullimiami Aug 2024 #3

You might, just go slow. Nothing wrong with that. multigraincracker Aug 2024 #4

it's always nice to meet friendly faces, peacebuzzard Sep 2024 #5

There is no timeline on grieving. If or when you're ready for a new chapter, you will know. LoisB Sep 2024 #6

A friend who lost his wife over two years ago is just now able to think about the future and changes. Lonestarblue Sep 2024 #7

I am very sorry for your loss. maptap22 Sep 2024 #8

I lost my husband 7 1/2 years ago Marthe48 Sep 2024 #9

{hug} While not the same... electric_blue68 Sep 2024 #11

It is very soon Marthe48 Sep 2024 #10