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Lefta Dissenter

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52. Wishing your son, you & family all the best

Sat Oct 27, 2018, 04:21 AM

Oct 2018

As hard as it is, please be sure to take good care of yourself through this difficult time.

My son was diagnosed with cancer a week after he graduated high school. There were many months of stress through surgery, treatment and testing, and years of worrying about recurrence. He is now 37 years old and I just got back from visiting him and his wife and daughter in Japan where they work for the US State Department.

There is a healthy, happy future ahead for your son, thanks to great medical care and the loving support of family. Be sure to celebrate even the tiniest bit of good news or spark of recovery, because those moments will add up, layer upon layer. One day you will look back on this time as a frightening episode in the past and recognize that, as a family, you all survived and thrived.

All the best to you

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I could use some support [View all] thinkingagain Oct 2018 OP

healing vibes for your son KT2000 Oct 2018 #1

Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #42

I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles Oct 2018 #2

Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #43

I'm deeply sorry. My prayers are with your son. AJT Oct 2018 #3

Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #44

My thoughts are with you. Lunabell Oct 2018 #4

Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #45

Lost power for a week Lunabell Oct 2018 #54

Thoughts and prayers sent lunamagica Oct 2018 #5

Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #46

I suffered a stroke in my early 50s Dr Vegas Oct 2018 #6

glad you recovered Demovictory9 Oct 2018 #24

Good to hear you recovered thinkingagain Oct 2018 #36

We are all sending our wishes that your son is in good hands and will recover. Marie Marie Oct 2018 #7

Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #47

In good hands- they are taking care of him now consulting specialists. . Think lunasun Oct 2018 #8

Thanks for the comments thinkingagain Oct 2018 #9

thank you for the update orleans Oct 2018 #18

Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #48

Dear friend, you are not alone tonight, peacebuzzard Oct 2018 #10

Thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #49

Sending prayers Olafjoy Oct 2018 #11

Yes our family is very close thinkingagain Oct 2018 #14

I'm glad you have family there. My doctor strongly recommends that a family member pnwmom Oct 2018 #34

They are very good here thinkingagain Oct 2018 #37

Good! I'm glad to hear that. It sounds like your family makes a good team. pnwmom Oct 2018 #38

Everyone here says the right words just by being here thinkingagain Oct 2018 #39

Support and prayers for you and your son! pazzyanne Oct 2018 #12

Healing thoughts for your boy! SunSeeker Oct 2018 #13

I'm so sorry that your son is in the hospital vlyons Oct 2018 #15

Best of luck to your son and you. FuzzyRabbit Oct 2018 #16

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. (eom) StevieM Oct 2018 #17

🕯 sprinkleeninow Oct 2018 #19

Best wishes JDC Oct 2018 #20

Sent up a prayer for your son. May the Lord be with him. iluvtennis Oct 2018 #21

This is why I love DU thinkingagain Oct 2018 #22

We are here whenever you need to connect. grantcart Oct 2018 #23

I'm with you over here in Redmond -- I send you and your family and son peace and an easy recovery. fierywoman Oct 2018 #25

Im by Lakewood WA. MFM008 Oct 2018 #26

Actually in wenatchee hospital they skyped thinkingagain Oct 2018 #33

The younger you are, the more "plastic" your brain is, so it should heal better and faster, pnwmom Oct 2018 #40

May your son recover and be well; prayers sent for him, for you and your family. No Vested Interest Oct 2018 #27

I'm not a doctor but my family has had some experience with heparin. pnwmom Oct 2018 #28

Yes I think that's where the are going thinkingagain Oct 2018 #35

So sorry- dawg day Oct 2018 #29

Sending love and hope for the very best outcome for your son. montana_hazeleyes Oct 2018 #30

I am thinking of you violetpastille Oct 2018 #31

Sending heartfelt hope and healing thoughts to your son thinkingagain. skylucy Oct 2018 #32

Best of luck to you and your family :) mr_lebowski Oct 2018 #41

I was trying to thank everyone individually thinkingagain Oct 2018 #50

I hope you get good news soon. Nt spooky3 Oct 2018 #51

Wishing your son, you & family all the best Lefta Dissenter Oct 2018 #52

Please keep us updated. I hope things have improved by morning. badhair77 Oct 2018 #53

Sending love to you and your son duforsure Oct 2018 #55

Sending love and support to you and your son. Freedomofspeech Oct 2018 #56

Been there. My best to you. sellitman Oct 2018 #57

New news thinkingagain Oct 2018 #58

glad to hear this. hopefully orleans Oct 2018 #59

That's great news. Of course you are still worried, but I'm so glad pnwmom Oct 2018 #62

Oh and the sun is shining and I can see blue skies thinkingagain Oct 2018 #60

The morning lifts everything up! peacebuzzard Oct 2018 #61

So a bit of humor for this situation thinkingagain Oct 2018 #63

Prayers for both of you and your family discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2018 #64

He's filled out his ballot thinkingagain Oct 2018 #65

+ 1,000,000 discntnt_irny_srcsm Oct 2018 #66

I find this site helpful for figuring out the nonpartisan races and the initiatives. pnwmom Oct 2018 #67

Yes thank you thinkingagain Oct 2018 #68